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Word of advice DO NOT trust your Gamma Chi

by: wps

As much as they say you can trust me DON’T! Remember they’re in a sorority too. DON’T tell them where you’re leaning. If asked who you like best just say I don’t know this is all so much so fast, never say oh I really like xyz & abc most because you don’t know who she’s telling that info too. AGAIN just don’t be specific with who you like, it may come back to hurt your rush experience! I’m serious keep that information to yourself!

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#1  by: Facts   
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My gamma chi got really close with a pnm in our group and then she the girl ended up getting a bud to the gamma chis house (one of the tops)
if you think that your gamma chi isn’t talking to her friends in her chapter about her pnms, you’re probably wrong.

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by: KaceyAug 8, 2023 2:21:34 PM

My gamma chi was so butt hurt I cut ( ranked low) her “top house” before pref. Shocked and confused is a better way of saying it. There are houses I knew I would not be happy in and hers was one of them. Before you say they were probably going to cut me anyway I will say I doubt it. I knew girls from high school and many many girls commenting on my IG post over the summer.

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by: LisaAug 10, 2023 9:08:00 AM

I was a gamma chi and did NOT go back to my sorority

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by: gamciAug 11, 2023 7:34:15 AM

Most talk. They get info and pass it along.

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by: JaceAug 12, 2023 9:15:31 AM

I am so glad they no longer have to see who you rank where. I know for a fact if they are a top house and you rate them low they go back and tell someone

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by: WowAug 12, 2023 3:53:03 PM

They used to who you ranked?

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by: ThisAug 13, 2023 10:22:32 AM

^^^^^ yes! Prior to last year they would “talk about your parties” with you and you would rank top to bottom right in front of them. So for example if you rated pi phi number one all week come pref you may not have kappa on your schedule cuz your kappa gamma chi opened their mouth. True story!

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#2  by: careful   
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That's sus right there if a gamma chi asks you who you like and who you don't. It's really none of their business to probe. If you have opened up that conversation with them, then be very careful. They are only human.

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by: What?Aug 8, 2023 9:08:42 AM

How is that sus? That is what they are there for. To talk through things. I told mine everything three years ago

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by: ^Aug 8, 2023 4:24:35 PM

They are there to talk if you want to. "How are you doing, do you want to talk?" is fine. But to just ask point blank about how you are ranking is definitely sus. Not everyone wants to open up to others, even a gamma chi, and no one has to. You can keep yourself to yourself if you want to.

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#3  by: Amber   
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If girls don’t talk to them during recruitment no one will ever sign up to be a gamma chi again….

By: Amber
by: ?Aug 8, 2023 1:39:08 PM

Why? Because GX want the scoop for their sorority and if they don’t get scoop they won’t want to be a GX?!

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by: wrongAug 8, 2023 5:58:19 PM

Most of the girls that sign up just want to get out of recruitment

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#4  by: no   
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My gc was great! I felt I could trust her and she helped me out with a hard decision.

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#5  by: Anne    
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At the very least dig deep and make sure you know what sorority she’s in before blabbing your deepest thoughts to her.

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#6  by: WPS   
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Yes. Don’t be foolish and think they aren’t texting their friends and telling them what you’re thinking.

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by: YepAug 8, 2023 9:17:36 PM

Totally

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#7  by: Yes   
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I never considered this until now (naive I know). I didn’t realize my gx shouldn’t have been asking some of the questions she asked. They’re supposed to be disaffiliated but most of them continue to talk to their friends. I would be very careful about who you trust including your gamma chi. I had a negative experience with her but definitely doesn’t mean every gamma chi is bad.

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#8  by: PNM   
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Do the gamma chis ask us questions or do we just talk if we want to talk to them?

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by: ^Aug 12, 2023 8:11:24 AM

Gamma Chi is a cutesy Greek-ish way of saying Greek Councelor. They are there to take you around to all the houses and make sure you keep to your schedule, to answer questions and clear up any confusion, to keep your spirits up when you are hot and tired or bored between houses so you can rush well, and to help you if you have any problems, like when you are upset over being dropped from houses.

They should only be advising you on how to think about the process and what you should consider in your decision making, in general terms. They are not there to give you their opinions on your choices, or advise you how to rank, or predict your rush for you, and they should not ask you what you think about any sororities or talk in any way about specific sororities. And you are NOT required to give up anything that's in your head if you don't want to.

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#9  by: Amy   
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They talk. Not all but some. People are naive if you think they don’t

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#10  by: Be careful    
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Bump!

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