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Top House - Not so "Top" after all

by: PC 2026

I'm from OOS and thought I was lucky enough to land in the "top house" on bid day. However, I've realized that it is full of clicks and mean girls. I'm trying so hard to meet people and make friends just to continually be ignored. Nobody talks to me when I'm at the house and nobody bothers to respond to any of my texts. Just constant rejections because I'm not part of the "in crowd" from high school and I didn't know anyone coming into the sorority. Joined a sorority to make lifelong friends, but instead I've been more depressed than ever.

Posted By: PC 2026
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#1  by: ark   
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lemme guess, chi o or kappa??? chi o is incredibly cliquey and to be honest, the girls are rude. kappa is similar as well, people go into these houses with their friend groups already made

By: ark
by: meJan 18, 2023 10:10:43 PM

i cut ranked chi o fourth going into pref. a girl from my hometown had a lonely experience and i was afraid that would be me. my advice is to reach out to girls from other houses. pi phis are super sweet, zetas have friends in all houses, adpi’s are so fun, one of my best friends is an axo…. recruitment next year will help bond you with girls in your sorority as well as living in house if you decide to do that.

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by: LacyJan 19, 2023 10:45:53 AM

Yes! Totally agree with @me. Reach out to girls from other houses. My large friend group is 80 percent a different sorority than mine and that’s ok! I am also in a top house and I will say during recruitment it is easier to be in a top house. That is the only time it matters at all though!

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#2  by: ark   
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lemme guess, chi o or kappa??? chi o is incredibly cliquey and to be honest, the girls are rude. kappa is similar as well, people go into these houses with their friend groups already made

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by: YepJan 17, 2023 10:35:30 PM

I assumed Kappa but Chi O fits, too

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by: YepJan 17, 2023 10:38:44 PM

Just reread and she said “the top house” so that would be Chi O

I’m so sorry you are not finding friendly people. I bet with PCs being so big there are other girls who feel this way. Hopefully you find them soon ❤️

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#3  by: wps    
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What about finding the other oos girls in your house? I know the “top” houses don’t take very many out of state girls but there’s got to be more than just you.

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#4  by: …….   
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I can totally believe this.

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#5  by: Liz   
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Am I the only one confused by the “PC 2026” thing?

By: Liz
by: @lizJan 21, 2023 9:08:37 PM

probably a troll post trying to stir up drama. this site is full of them.

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