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Trust Yourself

by: therealtea

PNMs keep in mind there are over 7,000 sorority members & over 29,000 UARK students, not a few hundred (like the thumbs up or down). There are insecure women that constantly want to make themselves feel better by bashing others with their "real" ranks (I hope they are just immature freshman and not moms or alumni). As mentioned in other posts you will be at a great disadvantage if you don't trust yourself during rush. This choice is a SELF DECISION, you make it by yourself for yourself because if you don't it will be a huge waste of money and time. This is not like the movies, you will be lucky to bond with 10 girls, the pledge classes are nearly 200 hundred each and guess what many girls come to UARK with friends making it that much harder to make those strong connections. So if you feel a bond at rush with a house give it a chance. Rush is a big theatrical show, and I assure you not always the most genuine experience. I'd personally take these "real" ranks with a grain of salt and think for yourself. Look on sorority social medias maybe ask NON GREEK UARK students what they think, because everyone that is Greek is biased on their house. I hate to break it to you but sadly most times the decision is made for you even though you are lead to believe you have this huge choice to make (maybe on pref. night is all). Whatever you do come to UARK rush with an open mind!

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#11  by: Lacy   
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Good message:)

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#12  by: be open minded    
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PNMs every sorority thinks they are equal or above another, this site is so unreliable as some sororities really work this site for their benefit!

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#13  by: facts    
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Bump!

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#14  by: But   
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Also remember you can’t just trust yourself — you mig her love a sorority but they drop you. People on here say “ go where you feel best” or “follow your heart” but you realistically also have to be able to let go of where you feel best or where your heart tells you.
It’s not so much trust yourself as it is make the most with what ya get

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by: @butJan 28, 2023 12:23:40 PM

omg 100%

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by: TruthJan 28, 2023 7:46:16 PM

This is the truth. Sometimes you have to make the most of what you get. UArk sorority chapters have 500+ girls. With that many girls, you are bound to find someone you click with.

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by: TotlalyJan 28, 2023 8:30:01 PM

YES! Trust yourself is BS. You don’t get to decide. Try not to fall in total love with one sorority.

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by: @butFeb 2, 2023 8:31:30 AM

So much of recruitment is out of the control of the pnms. You might feel a great connection and have great conversation, only to find they dropped you after that round. It's so hard not to take it personally. Just have to regroup with every new schedule.

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