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I only have three houses left and i really like two of them. the other one ive been trying to drop this whole week and i’m on the fence about them. i told my top two that i was happy i went back and i told them i loved their sisterhoods, philanthropy, etc. i said that multiples times to both of them. l also asked them a lot of questions and the conversations were good. am i overthinking things?

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I know. I’m not sure how to do this. I don’t want to over do it but I want to let them know.

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Please do the same in the 3rd house. You never know, if you open up it just might turn into your favorite. You’re only talking to a few girls out of hundreds - hard to honestly form an opinion off of that unfortunately. You can find your people in any house!!

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i didnt. i was really nice to the girl i talked to and seemed interested but i didn’t want to lie and say i loved them. the girl i talked to seemed super interested in me and o could tell she loved me so i wouldn’t be surprised if i went back again. i’d still be fine going back for pref but i’d rather be honest to the two i want and nice to the one i’m on the fence about. and yes, i have an open mind. i liked my last choice a lot more this round than i did for philanthropy

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Just have fun and let whats meant to be, be! Keep in mind you may talk to the same 3-4 girls this week u may talk to 5-8 from these chapters but remember there are 300 other members you havent met!!! Chances are if you arent vibing during some rounds at a house but u keep getting them back there is probably someome in that chapter that will help you build a home away from home!!! Stay positive bestie!!!

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You should let them know that you really like it there and have an open mind on all the houses bc you really never know! There are different groups of girls in every house on campus- you will be able to find your group in any house!

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Pref can be a game changer! You'll likely see a side of any given house you haven't seen in previous rounds.

I encourage you to welcome any invitation you receive and go into pref with an open mind and an open heart.

All the best...

#panlove

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Agreed, pref is a totally different party. All the stops are pulled out, and you will be in awe. You should know where you want to go after pref. Even the one you’re on the fence about.

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by: PNM   

what is the likelihood that i get cut by all three before pref? my top house seemed so happy that i liked them but i couldn’t tell with my second choice. the third choice seemed to love me but i still wasn’t feeling it as much. i also don’t connect to their philanthropy as much.

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