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Girls not following back?

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Hi so I’m rushing this fall and I’m following girls from all the houses at uark (I don’t care about rank, I just want a good sisterhood) and some members follow me back but some don’t. Especially if the girl is on exec, it makes me feel like i’m automatically cut.
So two questions: does it mean it cut and if they don’t follow me back, do i unfollow them?
since recruitment is supposed to be mutual, I’m not gonna follow a girl if she doesn’t like me enough or think she’s too good to follow back.

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What chapter?

Also, sometimes they don’t see it or are scared to get in trouble with Panhellenic!!!

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by: pnm   

no chi o girl has followed me back but there are girls from every chapter who didn’t follow me back

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by: hi   

it doesn’t mean a thing! there are a lot of pnm’s and most members will only follow back maybe two or three and those are usually from their hometown or someone they have been asked to follow by a sorority sister ect… another thing to keep in mind is their pledge class. A junior or senior less likely to follow back pnm’s ( they are not looking for littles) and are most likely to be the girls on exec.

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okay that makes me feel a bit better, but some girls that i could see myself being close with don’t follow me back, is that a bad sign?

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Some actives get tons of requests from pnms so if they follow one they feel like they have to follow them all. If they do follow it’s mostly because they know them. I wouldn’t take it personally. Also for exec they can’t show favoritism so that’s why

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most prob aren’t following back bc members are technically not supposed to be in contact in anyway w pnms right now! most girls prob don’t wanna risk it even if following u back is okay

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really, i thought that was different this year

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