advice for pnms
by: hiplease please pleaseeeee do not tell any active in a sorority that you will go/are in love with a certain house. greek life is a tight knit community and odds are other sororities already know. when i rushed i totally favored one house and got dropped first round, so for y’all’s sake do not tell anyone ur fav house before recruitment starts.
Commentby: @hiJul 20, 2022 10:26:45 AM
by: hiJul 20, 2022 7:26:17 PM
all i’ll say is that u should aim to have at least 2 letters per house to be safe.
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To add the the OP’s advice, don’t tell any sorority who you like. If a sorority member should ask “Who are you liking so far?” Just say “Everyone! I am having so much fun!” And switch the conversation to a different subject. If you are asked “Who are you returning to today”, say “ I was so excited to see your house on my list. I had such a great time learning about your blah, blah, blah…”. and switch the subject. If you are really disappointed that a favorite did not show up on you list, talk to your Gamma Chi or a close friend, but not to your whole rush group and certainly don’t tell any houses you visit that day. It’s best to keep your feelings and invitation lists limited to as few people as possible. Do, however, let sorority members know when you had a good time at their house, and toward the end of rush week, it’s ok to let a house know you could see yourself there.
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by: hiJul 18, 2022 8:10:10 AM
no i didn’t have enough rec letters but u can go in really wanting a house and they can drop u at any point. moral of the story don’t put all ur eggs in one basket.
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