connections--the actual truth

Connections get mentioned on here as THE reason girls are in certain houses all the time, but actually connections can affect your rush in good OR bad ways. They’re really just people who know you from the past and know who you are irl, so they can see past your resume and looks. Maybe you’re from a tiny town in Nebraska and no one you know has ever gone here. You have no connections. But that can be a good thing! You’re starting with a clean slate. Like let’s say you’re from a big high school in big city Texas, and you know a few girls here in different houses. Remember that quiet girl in your geometry class you were rude and condescending to all through high school? Oops her older sister is in your top choice house here. She knows who you are, so she is one of your “connections.” The point is that no one should think that just knowing people in houses always helps pnms and if you’re going to rely on knowing people from high school, you need to be the kindest person you can be and hope all your connections stay positive!