The truth about Phi Mu

I had a top house and Phi mu on pref. I had a very loose connection in the top house. I knew her from my hometown but we never hung out. I was 100 percent sure I was getting a bid from them based on how well pref went. When I opened my card I have never felt so much pain. I thought my college was ruined and almost didn’t even go to the phi mu house even though I actually enjoyed them during the week and every night ranked them above KD, ADPI and Tri Delt. My gamma chi told me to please just give them a chance. Thank god I didn’t listen to this site and think I was “too good” for them. I have found a great group of friends and MOST of them have the exact same recruitment experience as me with having a top house on pref but didn’t have a close enough connection to get a bid. So please girls if this happens to you don’t listen to this site and give us a chance!