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Beware of what you hear

by: Upset

So upset. My friend in recruitment just told me her gamma chi talked negatively about a house (to her privately) which caused her to rank them low. This is a house I am really interested in and it makes me sad. I know they shouldn’t be doing that! Would report this but I don’t want to mess up my recruitment or my friends. So just don’t listen if you hear negatives. :( Make your own opinion

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#1  by: stay true   
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To you. It is so competitive.

Best of luck.

By: stay true
#2  by: Ugh   
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The gamma chi MUST be reported. You can wait until after bid day but PLEASE report to Greek life.

By: Ugh
#3  by: Go with your heart   
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First - Report this immediately to Panhel!!! She is not supposed to do that. Second - Go with your heart, that Gamma Chi is probably in a house that competes with the other house, so she is probably talking negatively about them because she feel threatened by them. That is so wrong in so many ways, but don't let it sway you at all. In fact it really is a compliment to that house that she feels threatened enough about them. DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU, DON'T LET ANYONE SWAY YOU!!

By: Go with your heart
#4  by: hang on   
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Be very careful, how well do you trust this friend? Since it didn't happen to you directly, and was something you got second hand, I would consider if maybe your friend has a different agenda? She may have gotten dropped by a house she wanted and is trying to save face, which happens a lot, or maybe she is trying to get you to rank them low so you won't get a spot? You only know for sure what you see and hear for yourself. Be careful and keep your opinions to yourself, and speak well of everyone. If you are dead sure about this, then definitely report to panhellenic but after rush, because not only is this about the gamma chi but the pnm who told you this will be questioned as well.

By: hang on
by: UmmAug 19, 2021 9:54:54 AM

That is probably very bad advice. Do you really think she is going to report it now that you told her her friend would be questioned as well?

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#5  by: Must   
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This needs to be reported!! I’m so sorry

By: Must

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