Wishing I was in another house

Get off the other house Instagram and be thankful you have a place to call your own

Instagram is easy to show the best of life or even a fake image. Try not to worry about what other houses are doing and get to know the women in your house. Attend every event they offer and ask people to get coffee or lunch, study together or just hangout at the house or old main lawn. Figure out how to get involved in your sorority by joining a committee or considering positions to run for when elections role around (you can start this by talking with members that currently hold positions you’re interested in). Making friendships and getting involved really help strengthen your love for your sorority and once you get settled you won’t imagine being anywhere else.

Stop posting on here

Be grateful you have a house and unfollow the other houses Instagram. I was in your boat a few years ago but I stopped looking at the other houses and made an effort to get involved and it changed everything

Hi! Sorry it’s been such a tough year for most of you freshman. I would for sure stop following other houses on IG. I can almost gaureentee you unless you had close friends that pledged that house ( cuz let’s face it if you had close friends that are actives you should have recurved a bid) then I think you would feel disconnected to those houses as well. I can’t even imagine the situation you freshman find yourselves in. Hang in and my best advice is to keep trying to make a life for yourself. Invite people for walks or to go to dining hall or whatever. Even if getting rejections don’t stop trying. There are other feeling just like you! Good luck!