LISTEN TO YOUR HEART

I'm an old lady that rushed many many years ago. There were 2 houses I liked: one was a top house and the other was more middle but I LOVED IT.
Like an idiot I chose the top house because...well because its a top house right?!?
I was initiated. But when I went through my first rush, all the pnms I clicked with got cut. When bid day came I didn't really connect with anyone. I ended up dropping. I just felt no connection.
As I watch rush from afar I just want to hug each of you pnms and say FOLLOW YOUR HEART! These ranking are such BS. If you feel a connection to a house, who the hell cares what they're ranked. You shouldn't be made to feel ashamed if you find your people in a certain house.
I can't stress it enough. You will KNOW in your heart who your tribe is. And that's a beautiful thing so don't ignore it just because some idiot tells you your choice isn't "good enough"
Be safe. PEACE