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Pnm’s should hear this

by: Involved greek

WHY are some of you guys still private on insta when time and time again we have said that will hurt your chances? This summer is a different year with social media being the way MOST girls will get an idea of who you are, your interest, involvement Ect..... So when a girl goes to check you out and your on private most of the time they don’t request, they just scratch you from their list. So don’t get over confident if you have some girls request to follow when there are currently around 300 per chapter.

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#1  by: Ikr   
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Sooooo many private!!

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by: UhJul 19, 2020 2:36:01 PM

And so many dont follow back! You arent famous, that is an easy scratch off.

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by: Real talk Jul 19, 2020 3:38:57 PM

If someone didn’t follow me back I would tell my sisters to cut them. No joke.

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by: YepJul 19, 2020 5:52:04 PM

It’s rude to not follow girls back no matter if it’s a preferred house or not. Not a great way to start off your recruitment. Uark girls have friends in other houses and it will get around.

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#2  by: !!!   
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GR won’t let me like your post so I’m just here to say this is TRUE!!!

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#3  by: Wow   
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Wow this is so true. I have wrote girls off as well simply because I don’t feel like I should have to request them to see their social media. It makes my friends and I feel like they are hiding something as well.

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#4  by: oof   
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some of our parents make us stay on private!

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by: WellJul 19, 2020 4:32:56 PM

Then tell your parents they are seriously hurting your chances this year during recruitment. It’s a different year and we don’t get to recruit girls they way we did during the past. So feel free to show your parents this and understand when you get cut by many many houses they had a part in it. I promise you the girls who aren’t private and have many girls looking at them have a better chance than the girls that have had a few people request to follow.

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by: hiJul 19, 2020 6:14:56 PM

also, you're going into college. don't blame it on your parents, you are old enough to make your own decisions and tell them this is what you want to do

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by: me tooJul 19, 2020 7:05:57 PM

the sugar daddies on insta that would be able to follow me: 👁👄👁

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by: GirlJul 19, 2020 7:31:22 PM

Girl your an adult!!!! Are u kidding?

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#5  by: Oof   
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My sorority likes to talk to people and learn what they are like before we cut😂. People are different then what comes at “face value” through social media. Yeah social media is nice and all, but if someone doesn’t follow a random girl back who’s in a sorority on campus that THEY DON’T EVEN GO TO YET and you cut them...Who does that say more about? Some people like privacy and only want their close friends following them, and that is so respectable. I’m not automatically think that they “hate my sorority” because they didn’t follow me back😂. If you have a private insta you are fine, and my sorority will accept you and actually listen to the words that come out of your mouth.

- from a girl who went into recruitment with a private account and didn’t like to follow strangers back and still got into a sorority that loves me for who I am and not my Instagram. ❤️🤟🥺

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by: OofJul 19, 2020 7:35:28 PM

ALSOOOO. The only difference is that you won’t see us face to face some days. Which who cares? It’s Over a camera... pretty much same thing. Maybe I won’t smell your perfume, or see the lipstick on your teeth, but whatever. If we were still in person recruitment 24/7, social media rules would be still be a thing and we wouldn’t be allowed to have contact with ANY PNM. So how does someone not following you really hurt their chances? It’s like how it would’ve been last year... no contact😂

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by: To oof Jul 19, 2020 7:50:28 PM

Not sure what sorority your in but i am in a top five house and know your clearly very uninvolved and don’t know what going on this summer behind the scenes. So if you think a girl that hasn’t had ALOT of girls looking at them versus a select few has as good of a chance then clearly you don’t know how the system works and haven’t been on the other side. And even if you have this year is NOT like the other years. There are pnm’s out there right now ( many many many) that are making themselves known and getting placed on house’s radar that otherwise may not have been. I know because I have PERSONALLY placed two of them on that list for my sisters to see. And the girls that are still private that me and my friends have not been able to look at are not on OUR radar. It’s actually that simple.

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#6  by: Oof   
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Well I’m glad that your house has things down and things are running well! I am actually very involved with recruitment as well, and yes while it is nice when a PNM takes the time to talk to me... at the same time her and I’s conversation still may not be as great as one I may have with that women in person. My sorority uses Instagram/ Twitter to make sure they aren’t doing any illegal/ inappropriate things. Whatever your sorority wants to do... that’s yalls ultimate decision. But I’m here to reassure PNM’s that it is okay if they don’t feel comfortable being on a public account and following strangers. It is respectable and rude to demand otherwise because some people just aren’t comfortable with that. Their is a place for every women in Greek life, if it isn’t in one of the “top 5”, then it really is not a big deal. I’m sorry if I offended you, but I don’t want to scare PNM’s into doing things they are uncomfortable with to get on a radar.

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by: To oof Jul 19, 2020 8:33:09 PM

You and I both seem to have the best of intentions for pnm’s. You did not offend me but it’s just naive to think that the more people that knows your name and has atleast a general idea of who you are won’t help your chances in all houses. Work week will look very different and a lot of what would be crammed into that week regarding pnm’s is happening now. I understand security , sugar daddies ect.. block them if they follow you. Also, I have close friend of mine in a lower ranked house that had two girls not follow her back but did me. Funny how much easier it is for girls in top houses. I am sorry but that’s just rude. I am honestly trying to help pnm’s. I know girls are being overlooked simply because we are looking at others and not them. Oh and those two girls that didn’t follow my friend but did me are no longer on our radar.

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