Would it look bad to reach out to friends about PNMs?

by: HMM July 13, 2020 9:05:49 PM

I have been struggling with this. If I reached out to my friends who are currently in a sorority and warned them about a girl going in (with evidence to back it up) would that look bad on my part? I don’t want them to get blacklisted but don’t want them in a friends sorority that I know has such great values and people. I know how this could look on the receiving end so I want to do what is best for everyone...

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#1by: . July 13, 2020 9:36:00 PM

If they are a VERY CLOSE friend that you can trust then I think it’s okay. If it is more like an acquaintance or someone you went to high school with I would be very careful, you never know who they are going to tell and how much information can get warped. I would really only say something if you have some kind of evidence of whatever it is she does that you disagree with. (Texts of her threatening someone or saying mean things to someone). But otherwise I would be very very careful.

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#2by: I’d stay out of it July 13, 2020 9:37:06 PM

Just for your sake. This network should be able to figure things out. That’s just my advice, though.

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#3by: Advice July 13, 2020 9:45:59 PM

I wouldn’t. It’s really not worth it and if she happens to join that sorority chances are they’ll find out about it or she’ll do the same thing again and get kicked out. Just focus on you and your experience and have fun!

By: AdviceJuly 13, 2020 9:45:59 PM