Adpi / Rush advice for out of state

ADPi is not a hard chapter to get into. If you have a good GPA and resume you’ll be okay. Definitely find some recs for them. Follow them on insta and DM some girls. They are incredibly sweet but maybe a little boring sometimes. Everyone loves them!

Your good! If your a legacy without horrible grades and decent personality/looks you should have no trouble getting a bid. They have a great chapter here with all types of girls so even though I don’t know you you will have no trouble finding your people!

Tell your sister to reach out to the recruitment chair at Arkansas and tell her about you.

I don’t know if some of these posts meant to sound condescending, but they did. “Decent looks/personality” .... I don’t care what house you’re talking about, but this is such a terrible thing to say to a pnm. Negative comments like this could stick with pnms they get a bid to whatever house you say that about & they could view themselves as just “decent”. Think before you comment, these girls are so nervous and impressionable right now—be the leader they need. (This goes for comments about every sorority by the way)
Anyways, to answer your question pnm: ADPi is actually very strong on who the pnm is as a PERSON. While GPA, recs, and all that Jazz matter, conversation is key ladies. Luckily you can now reach out to members! Use that to your advantage. Especially if you are shy at first, this calms social anxiety a bit so you can show your true self <3 It’s deeper than a resume/what you look like. A hilarious/interesting/genuine conversation will stick with the active during recruitment.
Also do research on other sororities here! It would be super special to be in the same house as your sister, but being knowledgeable of other houses could lead to a newfound love for another chapter! Having an open mind eases the stress of recruitment a lot(:
Reach out, be uniquely yourself & take some deep breaths.