help :(

If they don't feel like home, LISTEN TO YOURSELF.
You know yourself better than ANYONE else, and as a woman in a "bottom" house, I have friends in almost EVERY chapter.
Rankings are absolute BS.

please. please. please do this process for you and not for anyone else. Because if you listen to someone else, you might not be happy.
Remember: Recruitment is about finding YOUR home, not the home that people think you should join.

what you’re posting is is the exact reason they have PNMs not talk to eachother or go on this website. who cares what the top houses are. if you go to a house just because it’s top you will be miserable all year and wish you went a different house. go whatever sorority feels like home! i have close friends in 10/11 of the sororities and they’re all great, genuine girls who are friends with everyone no matter their “rank”. there’s great girls and bad apples in EVERY chapter here

I am feeling the same as you! I expected to be dying over kappa and chi o and instead i am dying over Tri Delt and zeta! I may not get anything back tomorrow but i would be either of those in a heartbeat over the two I thought were going to be my top. Going with my heart if I make it to pref with all 4.

I cut a house after round one because it just wasn't me. They cut me too because I wasn't asked back and they were mid tier. Just felt awkward and not genuine. Go with your heart you already know...