how to find out when cut

Not until the next day. Girls in house don’t even know until they vote at the end of the day. So you may have a friend that says you’ll get a bid but you don’t get enough overall votes to carry you to next round or the girl you are talking to may not seem very interested but you still get voted to the next round (doesn’t happen often).

Top houses are like stealth recruitment professionals. They will be very welcoming and know everything about you even when they know they are cutting you. Sad thing is you leave there thinking you had great convos and then don’t get asked back. Don’t take it personal or let it affect the feelings for the houses that did ask you back.

no, sororities definitely will not tell you if they're cutting you. you could have the best conversation ever and the girl you're paired with could seem like a match made in heaven and she could tell you how cute you are and that she wants you to be her little, etc. but then you end up getting cut the next round.

it's not necessarily the girl's fault that spoke with you that round, there are a million different factors that go into it. especially for top houses. don't take it personally

it’s tough on both sides especially when you really connect with a pnm but don’t have enough to carry her to the next round. for top houses it’s a numbers game. too many tops and not enough spots. all houses here rise because of it.