not happy

by: torn greekgirl January 5, 2018 12:24:32 PM

So I am not happy in my sorority. It is a "middle tier" sorority here. I just haven't found my friend group. And some of the sisters in my pledge class don't really talk to me. I have a big and she is nice, but its not like we became really close. I feel like I have good friends in another sorority (some consider this a lower tier sorority). I felt excited on bid day and my roommate was sad to have gotten a bid to a lower one but she is happy now and has friends. Now I feel like its not the sorority for me. I think I made a mistake and now I am initiated. What should I do?

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#1by: member January 5, 2018 8:08:09 PM

I mean your only options are to stay or to drop. You can't re rush since you're initiated. I'm sorry that you haven't found your group but just keep making an effort with girls and try to get involved and meet others. You can still hang out with girls in other sororities and still stay in yours. You will probably regret dropping because you'll miss out on events and opportunities to meet new friends. Your situation has happened to a lot of girls but just be grateful and make the best of it

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#2by: me 2 January 6, 2018 4:15:31 PM

Hey girl! I felt like this at first, stick it out and go through recruitment on the other side! This was the best experience for me and I made so many friends! If that doesn't work, then drop! But for sure go through Work week and recruitment!

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#3by: trust January 10, 2018 9:28:50 AM

Freshman year sucks for lots of people. There are always superstars in every pledge class who seem to have it all together and have a million friends. Just wait until you move in the house. Things will even out, you will meet your people, and you will love it.

By: trustJanuary 10, 2018 9:28:50 AM