sad to be a xyz
by: SadAll my friends ended up in top houses and I got a lower house. Everyone who meets me can't believe I'm an xyz and tells me I must have been accidently cross cut. I've tried making friends with my pledge class but they all seem so awkward. On Saturday I hung out with my friends and their new pledge sisters. It was so much fun! It made me sad for what I'm missing. Should I drop or how long should I keep trying?
#1 by: Hopeful
I would give it a little longer. Once you start to really meet everyone you might really like it! I remember thinking some people were awkward and I didn't like them and now I'm friends with them (I know, I feel terrible for ever thinking it). I would give it a little longer and see how you like the sisterhood events and functions. If you still don't like it, drop before initiation.
Commentby: Spring RushSep 18, 2017 7:04:29 PM
@Tri Delta:( I quit last year after returning from Christmas break. I do not regret my decision at all.
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by: Miserable Sep 24, 2017 12:05:31 PM
by: OddSep 24, 2017 11:37:44 PM
I really doubt you are a DDD! Not sure anyone would have posted their true house. Not buying this post!
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by: Greek101Oct 8, 2017 10:28:03 AM
What you put into something is what you get out of it. So maybe get involved and volunteer before you decide to quit! Everyone is nervous joining a new group...you aren't the only one.
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by: dddOct 8, 2017 9:32:13 PM
by: DDDOct 10, 2017 2:29:45 PM
#3 by: Relatable
Hi! Just want you to know that I think most girls feel this way their first semester of college. It's especially hard if you end up in a house where you don't know many people, but you can definitely look at that as an opportunity to become close with people outside of your hometown friends. I thought the same thing about some of the girls in my pledge class, but I stuck with it and I found my people. I definitely recommend giving it at least the semester. Best of luck!
#4 by: Sad too
I was chapter legacy to a top house cut right before pref and ended up with my second choice on bid day which was a lower tier house. A super sweet girl on my floor was a chapter legacy and had an in house sister at a top house and was cut right before pref. She dropped out entirely. It happens. We might have had other choices if our legacy houses had cut us sooner.
by: GreekSep 27, 2017 10:06:07 AM
by: Greek tooSep 27, 2017 11:54:29 AM
by: SadSep 27, 2017 4:39:57 PM
Those girls that did this are either the most horrible human beings alive or regret what they have done and have apologized.
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by: DDD Sep 15, 2017 12:50:05 AM
Tri Delta :(
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