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I got cut from a lot of houses that I really loved... how were they making cuts this year? I got all my bottom houses back and I feel so insecure and not good enough now. They say “trust the process” but I don’t understand

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I feel that

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Same way they always do. If they feel you would fit in with the house and they like you. The process can be defeating but I’d you hang in there you will end up where you are meant to be. Or drop. Up to you.

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gpa, involvement, if you’d be a good fit for the house. mostly if they think you’d be a good fit. don’t take it personal. every house is unique and it’s difficult to understand until you’re ok the other side of things. just focus on the houses you have and trust that you will find your home.

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I felt that :(

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I feel like if I was prettier or more interesting they would’ve wanted me back :(

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Facts I got back all 4 houses I dropped last round and only have 5 total. Like I wouldnt say Im drop dead gorgeous but its kind of defeating to get none back.

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that was me last year. got back all the houses i dropped and ended up with 6. seemed like everyone in my group had more options and i was feeling really defeated. but i went thru the entire process and ended up with two choices and was really torn at the end. liked both of them, wasn't sure i loved them. i connected with one member in particular and took a leap of faith. it totally worked out and i love my srat. keep an open mind.

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try to reframe the situation. you were asked back by houses that ARE interested in you. they saw something they liked. wouldn't you want to be around people who want to be around you rather than people you're always going to have to "impress."?!?!?!

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all good advice

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Remember: you don’t want a house that doesn’t want you back. Those houses saw something in you so have faith ☺️

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The reason you don’t see a lot of girls from actual sororities responding is because no one in greek life takes the website seriously lol. But I remember being a pnm and thinking this was true and that’s why I’m here right now. Your real sisters are there. You just need to give every one a chance. No guy or girl in other houses cares what house you are in. Be mature and give everyone a chance! ❤️ There are pretty girls in every house. Everyone knows this. Just because you didn’t get into a certain house doesn’t mean they don’t think you’re pretty.

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