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Would being married effect your chances of getting a bid? If you were obsessed with a PMN would that change if you found out she was married?

Posted By: Ijustwannaseesomething
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no cap you prob won't get a bid from a top house

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idk if the sorority lifestyle matches with being married.

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It’s about sisterhood and philanthropy. Not everyone just wants an in to hangout with frat boys

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looking for who asked for your opinion 🔎

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Don’t be discouraged by the other posts, you can totally still get in a sorority! Just know that it can be a big time commitment so just be careful in knowing how much on your plate you can handle.

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Unfortunately i’m extremely discouraged. I kinda had a feeling the comments would be like this. I won’t be signing up for recruitment. My marriage doesn’t define me or change my college experience but seeing these comments makes me not want to participate at all. Thank you for being the ONLY nice comment. I appreciate you

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One thing you can do instead of recruitment is go to COB (or continuous open bidding) to get into a sorority. This takes place after formal recruitment and is a lot more fun and relaxed hangout sessions with sororities. Usually smaller sororities like ADPi, Sigma Kappa, AGD, and AOPi do them and they are a lot less judgmental because they believe every girl should get the chance to be in a sorority. If you follow their instagram then they will announce when they have them. Please have faith and if you go to one hang out session and don’t like them then you don’t have to go to anymore. I’m personally in ADPi and I love how accepting we are of everyone. Any sorority would be lucky to have you.

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Exactly. Girls need to stop getting her hopes up when they don’t know the rules! I really wish her all the best but do not spread false information! It is a literal rule for a lot of chapters that it is only for single women. Pan will tell her what is best!!!

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not sure why you want to be in a sorority if you’re married? first off, how old are u?

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First off why can’t you want to have a fun college experience and be apart of sisterhood if you’re married? If I didn’t want a college experience and wanted to sit around with my husband all day I would go to a community college not ASU. Thanks

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No e fence but it’s literally hilarious that you are so young that you think it’s normal to be married and rushing a sorority

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you are extremely rude. let people LIVE. try not being so judgemental. she might be a great person and really mature. you don’t know her story or anything about her!!!

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@crying you can’t even spell offense, how dumb can you be

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I think it’s great that you are going to ASU to get your degree and want to be involved! Don’t listen to these other people on here, it doesn’t sound like they know anything. I know a lot of houses would not judge you at all, I just don’t know if it’s actually allowed. Your best bet is to call panhellenic and find out the parameters for rush (marital status, age, etc etc). Your marriage shouldn’t define you, and neither should being in a sorority 🙄. Best of luck with rushing, and if that doesn’t end up working out then there are a ton of other clubs at ASU!!

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i really hope you give rushing a chance! i’m not sure if being married is allowed, but i’m sure asu panhellenic can give you some REAL answers! most people aren’t like these bullies tbh. the trolls on here disgust me 😒

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i’m not sure. call asu panhellinic! best of luck, i hope it works out :)

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If they signed an antidiscrimination paper it should not. Sororities, or at least mine, are not allowed to discriminate on any factors besides gender. Recruitment at ASU is supposedly values based (at least that is true of what panhellenic preaches and my own sorority only looks at values, can we relate to the pnm, and gpa.) therefore being married should not be an issue. Also it is kind of a rule not to talk about romantic partners or boys during formal recruitment--no boys, no booze, no bongs...no bible. We have had married girls in my srat but none of them were married during recruitment --yet I'm sure my sisters would be excited to have a married sister so we could do the ceremony we do when someone gets engaged or married.

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