making the trade

If you've been initiated already, you're SOL

There are guys in several houses that have been initiated into other houses before. Guys in TKE, Sig Tau, Sig Pi, and others. These guys even still have pics up on social media in their old letters. No one gives a f&ck. Is your chapter just bottom tier and y'all wanna bail? If so, that is pretty f'ed up. Or are y'all about to lose your charter this semester or something? If its the later, and you are a freshman, I'd talk to your whole PC/Spring PC about merging with one of the fraternities that is just starting out and basically taking them over. Alpha Sig, DKE, and Sig Pi all did this, and Kappa Sig had a merge too a while back (although they were a big house before doing so).

I feel the same way as you and believe me, you arent alone.

I feel like I would have been better off waiting till spring soley due to the fact I was a unaware of who truly is worth my time.
Its rough seeing guys I am tight with having the time of their lives and meanwhile I am stuck in a dysfunctional chapter.