why is it so hard to get into a sorority

bruh

Every Mom thinks their daughter is perfect, and every girl wants to get in a top house. I didn't believe it until it happened to me but she will get in the house that is the best fit. If top houses are not offering her a bid then she is not what they are looking for. In the end if she was in a sorority she did not fit in she would be miserable. I was devastated when dropped from a house during recruitment but by the end I knew I loved the house I got a bid from.

I was logistics during recruitment for our chapter so theres a lot of "behind the scenes things" that can influence it, the worst being social media. We dropped girls in the back room immediately, no matter their GPA/convos because of bad social media. Obviously only a few were dropped without consideration because of nationwide scandals, but bad social media can really effect any scoring. It could also be awkward conversations during recruitment, so i would tell her to practice and calm down when in rooms. make sure she doesnt come across as fake/self-absorbed. Just remind her to be genuine and interesting, memorable during the convo