a plea to pnms

PLEASE don't try to rush a specific sorority. You will hear this a billion times but KEEP AN OPEN MIND! The truth is that it's more of our choice than yours. Yeah you rank us but we have the upper hand. We obviously know our chapter better than you do so we know who will fit and who will not. If we cut you it doesn't mean we don't like you as a person, we only have 5 minutes to talk to you. It just means we didn't click. The reality is that you really don't know us unless you know us. Unless you're friends with the majority of the chapter you don't know who or what we really are. All you have to go by is our social media or reputation. Don't base your future in greek life off of that, because it will steer you wrong. Don't base you choice off of who is the hottest or most popular because that's NOT what you're paying money for. You're in this for a sisterhood, women who love you for you. And if we love you we'll choose you don't worry. You will end up where you need to be. So don't think you know what chapter you belong in, you don't. And don't for a second let yourself be upset over being dropped by a house. Being dropped is a good thing because that means you're one step closer to your true home. Recruitment will be a blast only if you keep yourself open to the possibilities.