sororitys and frats

Im a guy in a too frat that some people consider cliquey. I kinda see that in terms of their being clear friend groups, but everyone really is comfortable with each other both as individuals and especially when we all get together. I'd be fine hanging out with any guy in my frat

I am from a popular sorority and I am comfortable around most of my sisters, however, I don't feel any support from them, and none of them will be my bridesmaids. That's a common situation. Sororiries are too large. Besides, (at most sororities) recruiting is not a very democratic process. Choosing one's little can be competitive and as a result many "families" end up with forced, random affiliations. I also think that majority of board members are there for the resume only. I don't feel like our boartd does enough to develop closer relationship in a sorority. So girls, be careful who you vote for. It's not a GPA or campus involvement that matters for a president, but her ability to create a unique spirit in a sorority, "cement" some friendship and bring sisters together, even if it means penality for those who are staying only with their clique.