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really starting to dislike theta...

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Hi guys, first of all, let me just say that I've had a lot of good conversations with Theta girls and there's a lot of them I really like. On the other hand, though, I'm not having that much fun and I'm dreading having to pay lots of money in dues to stay in a sorority I'm not in love with. I feel bad saying it, but part of it is due to their reputation on campus. I don't feel proud wearing their letters, I just kind of feel like a top 3 reject. During rush I told myself if I didn't get top 3 I'd drop, but I stuck with it and here I am. Every time I see girls wearing letters from cooler sororities I kind of get a pit in my stomach and it makes me just want to drop altogether. I know this is a little mean but I figure this is what this site is for since it's anonymous. Any advice?

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Secret week starts tomorrow. If you're thinking of dropping, do it sooner rather than later because it's rude to the sisters to spend their time and money on you if you're not feeling it.

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You need to drop before your Big goes out of her way this week for you. No hard feelings, but we only really want to initiate people who want to be in Theta as much as we do.

By: Drop NOW.
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Own your feelings. Don't anonymously bash your own sorority.

By: Drop before secret week
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If you already feel this way, you're not cut out for a sorority like theta. Drop now, before secret week.

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by: Lol   

"Cut out?" Theta isn't even selective.

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with how superficial you are, there's no doubt why you didn't get into the "top 3"

By: wow
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maybe greek life just isn't for a person like you...

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Good thing you dropped. Theta doesn't want someone like you, and neither do any of the "top 3". No one likes someone who's in it just for the title and the rep.

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by: theta sucks   

sounds like someone who's bitter they're in theta

By: theta sucks
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Drop now while you still have a chance! It's the worst and everyone is sooo fake.

By: DROP!
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Listen, a sorority (or frat)'s popularity/rep will change every year. The sisters who stand by you won't. I understand that everyone takes status into consideration when joining a sorority, but that shouldn't be the main reason/deal breaker. I am also a freshman who pledged Theta (I ranked it above a "top 2" sorority after pref night, actually) and I have zero regrets. I love all the girls in my current pledge class/older members and I am so glad I joined. I would suggest you drop now if you're only in it for status, because that is not what the purpose of a sorority is.

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by: this is true   

this is true. when i rushed 2 years ago girls would drop if they got kappa. now apparently its "top three"?
reputation doesn't really mean anything

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Would you rather say "I'm in theta" or "I'm not in a sorority". Drop now if you don't love em. Theta is socially at the bottom of the food chain (haven't seen a single one at a good party), and honestly that's not gonna change any time soon. Definitely not in the short time you'll be at Hopkins. I would drop if I were you

By: i dropped too
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