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Every sorority has its ups and downs in rank and reputation, as well as pros and cons. Phi Mu used to be #1 about 6 years ago, but they had the meanest and the most stuck up wannabes, who pretended to be future socialites. Aphi was fun, warm and down to earth, until they secured a couple of hot pledge classes, and from then on their reputation as the most attractive sorority became more important to them than friendship between sisters . You guys should look at sorority leaders. Aphi had several bad ones. Phi Mu had improved but also had its share of beaches. One can end up in the most popular sorority but feel lonely and miserable. Ignore the rank and follow your gut feeling.