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So i got into my last choice today and i tried to keep and open mind during the bid day party afterward but i didnt connect with anyone in my pc or any of the sisters. It was just uncomfortable and awkward and im thinking of dropping just so i dont waste my time. Could it honestly get any better bc im not feeling as optimistic as i was at the beginning of the day

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Bid day is sometimes awkward and thats okay, most of the people in the room are complete strangers after all. You have a lot of time to decide to drop before initiation, so give it a few weeks just to be sure.

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It can definitely get better! I'm a senior who wasn't happy on bid day three years ago. I decided to stick it out because I thought the sorority had potential and I could bond with my pledge class. I'm really glad I stayed because now I couldn't be happier and I've found my best friends–literal sisters.

I know it may seem bleak right now, but give it at least a couple weeks to see if you can find your place. You won't regret it!!

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wait until you have to pay dues. if you haven't found love for your group yet then don't pay! but definitely give it a little more time. Props to you for keeping an open mind- I know many who didn't

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