To all pnm’s rushing this year

Honestly this couldn’t be more true. PNM’s, the houses you see getting so much hate on here most likely hurt someone’s feelings by them being cut from the house during the recruitment process or something that didn’t mean the house was a horrible house. Recruitment is a tough process and keep in mind that when a house doesn’t invite you back, they know their house and they just see you shining elsewhere more than you could shine in that house. It really is a positive process if you let it be and you just have to trust it and go into it as authentic as possible like this person said. But if you don’t get invited back to a house please recognize this instead of running to silly platforms like this and claiming the house has horrible sisterhood or that they are stuck up and rude. Enjoy where you are and don’t tear anyone down in the process.

I couldn’t agree more with this. A lot of the things you will read on here are written by girls who have had their feelings hurt for the reasons the other people said as far as getting cut by houses or even stupid stuff like what house their ex boyfriend’s new girlfriends’ house is. These things are posted over such silly drama that you can’t take this as factual at all. I also feel the need to say that NOBODY up here sits here and thinks oooo they’re in a “bottom” house. That’s not how Greek life is here. You will find your home and everyone will be happy for you I promise.