monitoring instagrams

It means she's curious. But I wouldn't read too much into it. A lot of them do look at social media because they want to see how potential members publicly represent themselves. And if you become a member, some sororities have pretty tight policies on the kind of stuff you can post and they do monitor it so you'd better get used to it. So if your social media is public be sure what you're posting is appropriate. And I would steer clear of posting recruitment related stuff until bid day.

They do the same thing that you and every other pnm is doing. Admit it, are stalking their chapter and members and they are doing the same. To assume different is naive.

No don’t read to much into it, she’s probably just heard other girls say good things about you and wants to see if you have clean social media posts. They don’t stalk you Haahha they just want to see if you’re a good fit

Not everyone recruits, so sometimes our friends will come by and say omg I saw this girl who looks like so-and-so and has to look you up to show us lol definitely don’t look too much into it