hazing/pledging

I don't know. What I do know is that when it's all said and done, you want to have a connection with your brothers that is tight and real. You want to have memories and experiences of shared pain and burden, something you can be proud of and look back on with a smile and a laugh. It's something that binds you with every man who's ever been in that chapter. Nothing worthwhile is easy. If you aren't 'hazed,' you're only brothers by formality. If soldiers didn't go through training/boot camps/etc together, what loyalty would they have to each other? You want to be more than just a member of a group.

It's delaware, none of the hazing is that bad, trust me. This isn't the south or a huge big 10 school. You'll be fine wherever you go. Most frats don't even have drinking hazing anyways, it's too much of a risk

If you're asking that question you definitely can't handle it. You're honestly probably not even cool enough to get a bid from a "top frat" if you post something like that on here. I would recommend rushing alpha sig or zbt next semester cuz we all know you didn't get a bid this semester. Or you could always rush Sig Ep where you sign your name on a piece of paper and are a brother