try again

For all the freshman PNMs that dropped or didn't have any chapter left I wanted to tell you its ok to rush again as a sophomore. This is coming from a girl who rushed twice and the second time around found my home. The first time around I wasn't myself, I tried to fit every sororities stereotype and didn't show them the real me. So take a year focus on yourself, focus on school, and stay friends with the friends that get bids. You will be able to know the sororities beyond their reputation better after spending a year on campus. Or don't try again, just know that it may seem like the worst thing in the world just happened but it happened for a reason. Don't blame the system or a particular sorority, sometimes thing don't work out for no good reason.