problem with recruitment (once removed so reposted)

This is spot on. I agree 💯
One thing I’ll say is about the “bottom tiers” also having gorgeous girls....like who cares. Looks in life SHOULD NOT MATTER. And we as women are told if we are not beautiful and gorgeous we are not valuable. So while yes there are beautiful girls in every chapter, that’s not what makes the “bottom tiers” just as good as anyone else. They are academically and philanthropically equal or superior to other chapters, involved in other campus activities and in high praises from their national offices, and they LOVE each other. And yeah they also go out and yeah they all have great physical attributes but BEAUTY AND BODY SIZE SHOULD NOT BE WHAT MAKES A SORORITY WORTHWHILE.

This is the realest talk. I’m in one of those “top tier” chapters and we literally just need to show up to rounds, look like we bathed, and talk to PNMs and they want to join no matter what. The “lower” chapters put so much work into their recruitments but it doesn’t even matter these PNMs have made up their mind. The lower tiers are handicapped when it comes to recruitment because of PNMs perception of what their reel experience should be.

this is true. i’m going to be a freshmen at UD and sadly already have a pre conceived notion of the sororities here, and am ashamed to say i already have the one i want in mind