rushing a second time???

Chapters who didn’t make quota do informal. If you had a bid extended to you you are bound to that bid for one calendar year.

screw off if someone didn't feel at home then you shouldn't judge them

Oh I’m judging alright.
You know what’s uncomfortable? Rush is uncomfortable. Meeting new people is uncomfortable. You think sorority rush is magic and suddenly all is right in your soul and you’ve been sorted into gryffindor? I know it looks that way on the gram, but bonding and friendships and sisterhood 9/10 take work and effort. And a whole group extended you a chance to join them and be accepted into their sisterhood, taking a chance on you. But nah, you talked to 11 of them it just wasn’t gonna work out...meanwhile you also could have gone through the new member period, no money invested yet, given it a few weeks and probably made friends in your pledge class or Met your big.... But no we don’t want to go to bid night and try anymore. Because it’s “awkward” and “uncomfortable” to hang out with new people.
Ready for the rebuttals which one are you going to go with? The “I did make an effort but the ones that cut me didn’t know me either!” Or “It shouldn’t be this hard because a sorority is magic and you’re supposed to just KNOW and I didn’t!”

@mizzcookie 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I was a rho game you have no idea how much I wanted to say this to the PNMs today. But I can’t because I gotta be supportive and whatever so 🙃

i’m concerned by the person who’s a rho gam, i hope you’re not serious. rho gams don’t ever do a good job of making people feel ok, first of all. also if someone isn’t proud to wear their letters they shouldn’t join a sorority plain and simple

@omg it’s hard towel a PMM “feel ok” when you literally can’t give the PNM the answer they wanted which is JK girl go pick who you want a bid from.
So we went from feeling uncomfortable to not feeling proud of the letters you got a bid from? Because why you think you’re better than them? Girl you don’t even know what those letters even MEAN yet or any of the history or rituals of the organization and you maybe met a dozen sisters during recruitment. But you’re not proud to wear the letters on the bid card you just got because.......??
I could fill in the blank but I’ll give you a chance 🙃