hey pnms....

If you view life in terms of tiers then I feel sorry for you. Find the group that you like and have a common interest with. Otherwise you're going to drop whatever recruitment you are going through, frat or sorority, and nobody will care about you.

agree with all this^. I mean obviously you're not TRYING to be rude at all but give all (all, even the ones you think you're too good for) the chapters a real, legit shot, be attentive and enthusiastic when you're with them, and you'll have a successful recruitment. I was told that recruitment is like dress shopping: something that looks amazing on the rack might not look as good on you but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you or with the dress. Alternately a dress that you didn't think would work could look fab, and you'll be glad you gave it a shot.

The most important thing about recruitment is to trust in the process and not drop out if you are cut by your favorite house. Each day look at the ones you still have because they actually like you. Stay in until the end and you will find your home.