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^^^^^ truth

People might not see eye to eye. Just answering a question. You don’t look right getting mean on either side.

@please I am not delusional in the least, you are one rough tough girl, to put it nicely. Exclusive is hardly a word I would describe the greek system by. You don't think for one second that some of the girls left of this process were mistakes? Most of us do. And just as some that were given bids were mistakes as well--you for starters!!. There really isn't a need for you attitude. MOST don't share it with you.

You can say what you want about me but most don’t want to share mixers this early in the year. Call me tough that’s fine. I paid my dues literally and figuratively. Sorry if it hurts your feelings.

@fair So are you saying all the left out girls are not "cool"??

No I think that girls are left out because others think that. You think kappa would take girls who didn’t get bids out with them.?

Yes, I think Kappa would take their friends out with them.

Wow. That’s harsh. Way to bash DZ. I know some girls in DZ and they are amazing. Maybe if people didn’t think like you they wouldn’t be struggling. Btw they have mixers and they would bring anyone who wanted to come because they dont judge.

First of all, Not everyone got a bid

Many that got a bid got it for DZ, which is new and struggling. When every other sorority has 30 new members, and poor DZ gets maybe one or 2, how appealing do you think this is. Apparently you didn't get that bid. Girls join sororities to make lots of new friends, not a couple. When they started DZ perhaps they should have taken a couple of members from each existing sorority, that could have helped. PanHel should have offered some incentive.

But lets be real here. You can't put a bunch of girls together and think they will all be fast friends--no way. Might work with guys, but not girls. As you go through time, and quicker than you realize, you will see that there are cliques of girls within cliques. Because you are referred to as sisters, you are no way loving everyone in your sorority.

posted under wrong place...WOW thats harsh way to bash DZ. I know some girls in DZ and they are amazing. Maybe if people didn't think like you they wouldn't be struggling. BTW they have mixers and they would bring anyone who wanted to come because they don't judge

don't know any girls who didn't get a bid if they didn't drop when they didn't get invited back. Unless they suicide bid but then again....choice

Nope, you are wrong. Some girls did not get bids. Some girls only got DZ. Not bashing anyone in DZ, the couple girls I know are nice girls, but most would understand that joining a new sorority, with a small amount of members, is not for everyone.
Don't fault the girls who attend mixers with friends. They probably don't feel comfortable all the time anyway, but would rather go out than stay at home. Many would welcome paying the dues in your sorority too. Like someone else said, be nice.

Maybe if more girls who want to join things do join DZ it wouldn’t be so small that girls would say “ they only got a bid to DZ”. I know you meant no harm by that comment and I agree. But this is a great opportunity to create a great new sisterhood.

@nice reread what you wrote, AZD was considered the DZ a few years ago. What does that mean? Thats a rhetorical question, you don't need to answer.

Getting this straight you really need to get a life. Do you think your funny? Rhetorical