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University:  Marquette University - MU

Greek Organization:  Alpha Phi

Author:  Traitors

Comment:  I was a member of Alpha Phi (and I know people are going to say oh Sigma Kappa fake, but I mean it). It's probably a waste of my time to be on this site and maybe it's petty but I still have a lot of pain from how terrible this chapter was to me. I was a good member. Never got in any trouble, was very involved, always showed up, always was kind, always had a good attitude. I said yes to everything exec board would ask me to do and even after graduating I am still helping them with things from miles away. This chapter used me and sucked everything out of me that I struggled quite a bit mentally. They never supported me or provided me with much at all. I am thankful for a handful of friendships I made, but otherwise too many people only cared about their image and parties. The whole "you get out of it what you put into it" is not true with Alpha Phi. They will take and take and take until you have nothing left. "Generosity" is one of their pillars and I don't see this at all in the chapter. They do philanthropy work because they have to not because they want to. They had this service thing at a women's soup kitchen and I was impossible to get girls to sign up and go. Joining Alpha Phi was really exciting, but it has gotten so much worse over the years. I would not recommend joining this chapter at Marquette University. If you are a good person, go to a chapter that will embrace that and love you, not suck everything out of you.