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Poster Name:
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Poster Message:
If you get to sisterhood and realize you want to pref this house, tell them! Say "I've really loved talking to all of y'all and I really can see myself in X. Y'all are so ____ and so _________ and even on zoom I can tell this is house I would love to be in. At pref, if you 1000% know which house you DON'T want say "I really think I found a home in another chapter, but I really think y'all have a great sisterhood too. Ask them why they picked X house and just keep being friendly. IF YOU WANT X HOUSE AT PREF SAY: I REALLY THINK I WANNA BE A(N) X! Y'ALL ARE JUST SO BLANK AND BLANK AND I FELT LIKE THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF TALKING WITH Y'ALL. Maybe smile a bit and cry a little if that's your thing. I love this house so much...and yada yada. Make it super clear. If you are 100% unsure and totally 50/50 before pref about what house you want, ask them why they went X house and say that you would love to be in their house. It's better to play it safe and potentially be on both of your pref houses' quota, so you could make the final decision. Pref is honestly the only time most PNMs really get a choice during recruitment, so better to be you choosing the house over them choosing you