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If I see a pnm comment on an active’s post, I just assume they either have met the active before or they are interested in that particular house. For certain pnms I don’t think anything of it, but if it gets to the point where it has become obvious which house you are aiming for, then obviously we are going to be looking more heavily at other pnms that we think we have a better chance of getting. For example, there was a certain pnm that I had an in-person conversation with from my hometown, very well-rounded and I absolutely loved her. However, every time I scroll through instagram I see her commenting on A LOT of zetas’ posts. So, obviously I’m not going to put much effort into staying in contact with her because I have a feeling I already know where she wants to end up. Am I saying she will end up there? No. Could she still end up in my house? Absolutely. My point is though, it’s definitely noticeable when a pnm comments on actives posts and I do think that most actives wouldn’t agree with it/consider it a pnm limiting their options. Just my opinion. Hope this helps :)