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Poster Name:
Dropped

Poster Message:
As someone who dropped I’ll say I was really disappointed and discouraged in the whole process. I felt like I did all the right things, had great conversations, etc. then the next day would come and all those great conversations meant nothing because I was cut. Rather than continue on to a group I did not connect with, I know at tamu I can find other groups to be a part of, where I actually have a say in my membership instead of being told who I’m supposed to fit in wiyovased on a 20-minute conversation I had with someone. Especially when the conversation was good! I know in “real “ life I would be friends with this person, but because I don’t know enough people in the chapter, I’m cut. So yes, rush probably wasn’t for me. But, maybe some type of chanyto the process going forward. Girls are more empowered to be independent now and will drop if they don’t get what they want. Tbh, so many of the houses seemed to already know who they wanted, etc. the rest of us were just there to fill their time. I would argue the chapters do t have an open mind, not the pnms. But I did learn a lesson on what I don’t want. Being judged like that was very hard, but no ill feelings.